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There’s an old myth that frogs will pull down other frogs trying to escape a pot of boiling water. That’s likely the stuff of folklore, but the dynamic is real: In everyone’s life, there will always be people who will resist, threaten and might be sabotaging your happiness, fate, success and your background. This general group of people whom we can safely call “toxic” might be bluffing you for becoming your best chum and Will never make you feel guilty for needing them. You’re never putting them out with your issues. They want to help you. They don’t see you as a burden and will hide what is actually going behind the scenes that is what we call (baghal mai churi muu mai ram ram) in Urdu. Some people in life are kind of a drag annoying, difficult, demanding, or otherwise unpleasant. These people are not “toxic,” in the strict sense of the term. They’re just generally undesirable.
With this group of people, you might want to create a little distance, but you won’t have the same urgency to cut them out of your life.Toxicity really exists on a spectrum and of course you have to decide when someone requires distance and when they need to be cut out of your life.Under the influence of a toxic person, you might feel sad, uncomfortable and downright ashamed about yourself, because toxic people have a peculiar way of making you toxic yourself.
It’s absolutely crucial to remove these people from your life in a healthy and rational way by simply blocking them from everywhere. We only need to make some space between us . We simply cannot please anyone every time, neither owe anyone explanation. We can just slowly ghost out of their life to the degree necessary, until we are no longer affected by their toxicity. Simply we should stop feeding the flames and this can be the most liberating and life changing decision we have ever made.